Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Toes, Teeth, a Tush, and a Tail

As adults, we miss the "interesting" in what we see day-to-day.  Thank goodness for infants, who remind us that each body part, nature element, and experience all have one-of-a-kind components to them.  This month Caleb has discovered a few of these wonders.  

Toes.  At first I thought Caleb's seemingly instant fascination with his ten little piggies came due
to my removal of his socks on a 70 degree day.  We were strollering outside, and I thought he was getting a bit hot--SOOOO, socks off, toes moving, hands touching feet, eyes staring. Throughout the winter and fall, I've struggled to keep those little pieces of baby body covered (probably because my own toes are always cold).  But I already know what my feet look like (and even if it were warm right now, I'd intentionally cover my toes due to my partially removed  postpartum ingrown toenail).  Caleb had only seen his toes during his short 5 minute baths--not enough time for ample observation.  But this day was different---30 minutes of uninterrupted toe touch time.  The fascination?  They're little and in different sizes.  Each moves (practically) independent of the other.  Shiny squares called nails tip the ends.  And, they stay attached when the legs bend the feet into touching range!  

Teeth.  No, Caleb does not have any teeth yet, and Summit has not bit him yet.  This discovery is just a speculation of mine.  Now that he's 6 months old, Caleb LOVES to put things in his mouth, including his own fingers (and sometimes hands).  I don't know if he likes the way his
gums feel to his fingers or the way his fingers feel to his gums.  Either way, his fingers get a completely different sensation when his hands touch his mother's or father's face.  Often times, those little hands find their way into our adult mouths---and our pearly whites get the Caleb Touch.  Don't you wander in what form babies come to realizations?  (Is it like the infants in that silly John Travolta and Kirstie Ally movie Look Who's Talking, where the viewers could hear the dialogue going on in, between, and among babies?)  Anyway, I'm sure our baby boy has thought, "Wow, these sharp things are NOT in my mouth...why is that?"  Just a point for we adults to ponder...

A tush.  This is more of an accomplishment than a discovery: our son can sit on his tush without any props, without falling over (well, 90% of the time...)!  
Of course I don't remember the first time I balanced on my bottom as an infant, but I DO remember the first time I could ride my training-wheel bike without needing the training wheels: that moment of balance when you hold your breath.  (Keeping with my psycho McCoy memory, the mile-marking even took place on our driveway in Radcliff, Kentucky, during the summer before my kindergarten year.  My dad and brother witnessed the event, and I then remember Dad taking the smaller training wheels off for me to test ride the "2 wheeler" around the house in the grass....)  I can say that Keith and I have coached Caleb in this sitting "ability" since Christmas.  Selfishly, we wanted to be able to tell the doctor at the 6 month appointment that our son could sit up, even though he doesn't roll over consistently.  Regardless of our motives, Caleb can balance, and I wonder if his baby brain had a silent celebration the moment his "training wheels" (the Boppy pillow and parent hands) came off.  (This picture is the before shot of Caleb's sitting era.)

A tail.  Yes, the tail belonging to a certain tabby.  Caleb finally notices the cat; when Summit walks across the room, Caleb's eye's track her movement.  Three months ago, Keith and I started taking Caleb's hand and petting Summit with it.  Now, he tries to do this on his own; most times the result is a previously baby-saliva coated hand now covered with cat fur.  It's humorous to watch--and occasionally Summit's tail comes into Caleb's grip.  No pulling yet, so I'm not sure if the cat is currently bothered by all this new attention/activity.  I'll simply close with this image, taken moments before I had planned to open the apartment door to wheel Caleb and the stroller outside for a walk, only to be halted by an "unexpected" cargo in the bottom basket:

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

PhotoWorking

I created a new "gerund" since I hear the one "blogging" all the time. I don't consider myself a blogger, nor do I think I'll ever become one who will be able to keep up with hundreds of blogs of internet friends whom I've never met. (I think I've been doing a good job, though, at following you friends who already have one; I love hearing what's going on in your lives!) I've had to push myself to make at least weekly entries--not something I would call a hobby yet.

So then, one of my newly proclaimed hobbies? PhotoWorking.

Actually, hobby is Keith's label. (I just looked up the word in the dictionary: a pursuit outside one's regular occupation engaged in especially for relaxation) A few months ago
while talking about how energized he became after a relaxing morning of fly fishing on the Little Red River, he mentioned that I appear to have no hobbies. At first, I took offense--I've had tons of hobbies over my lifetime: stickering in elementary school, rubber stamping in junior high, crafting in high school, ceramic and wood painting in college (oh, and I might as well label all my teaching days' classroom projects as a young adult hobby). "But you don't have anything now that you look forward to putting your time into to help you relax." Heh, heh, aren't SARAH and RELAX synonyms? "Well, sometimes I take naps!" was my rebuttal.

Deep down, I was experiencing that "I used to have a fulfilling full-time teaching job during the week and make time to play outdoors on the weekends but now I'm just a stay-at-home mom who does what?" syndrome. I questioned myself about what has fueled me over the past 6 months (or 4 at the time of this conversation) in my new role as an infant caretaker (a.k.a. MOTHER). I came up with cooking, in which my interest has grown as I've had more time at home (to cook AND to watch The Barefoot Contessa on the Food Newtork). Keith opened up another possibility: "You like to make photo albums through that website to give to people." (At the time, I was in the middle of creating a few projects to be given as Christmas gifts.) This made me smile. One I hadn't considered a hobby! I guess my form of relaxation is creating something, whether that be food or projects or something else to share. So, I'd like to share two of my recent albums with you:
*YOU CAN CLICK ON THE LINKS TO VIEW THE REAL ALBUMS ON LINE!

1. Caleb's First Four Months (I made it for my parents)
2. Stoppenhagen Family Album: the Past Century (I made it for my mom's side of the family)

3. While I'm at it----I'll also share my FIRST Photoworks book. For those of you who've know my family, you'll enjoy this one: McCoy Family Vacations



It appears husbands know how to get you thinking, reflecting, evaluating--because Keith didn't stop there. "Have you ever made or ordered a copy of a PhotoWorks album for yourself?" No--strictly gifts so far. So, next project? An on-line book we'll get to keep on our own coffee table (or on Caleb's book shelf). Any one have a suggestion for the new book's title?

PS---An interesting background tidbit I am admitting on line.....My enjoyment/obsession with computer photo book layout/editing/etc. stems from my yearbook staff days in high school....yes, I was editor in 12th grade, and yes I have been to yearbook camp. What a dork---yearbook camp, for a whole week????